Officially, 6 months na kaming magkalayo ni Siopao, at ang laging tanong sa akin:
"Kayo pa din ba?"
"Paanu yan malayo kayo? Baka mauwi yan sa hiwalayan."
"Hala ka, may iba na yun sa Pinas, di kaya?"
O di ba, napaka positive ng mga pananaw nila sa buhay. Napaka encouraging, daig pa si Coney Reyes sa positivitism. Habang ako, kung maka kapit na lang sa relasyon, daig ko pa ang kumakapit sa Marikina Bus Line mula Makati hanggang Cubao.
I was never alarmed or threatened with the distance. Maybe because I don't see it as a problem. Maybe because I know that my love for Siopao is much bigger than any distance one can ever measure.
Bago pa ako umalis ng Pilipinas, alam kong magiging mahirap, pero hindi ko inisip na ikasisira or maging dahilan ng paghihiwalay. Mas concern pa ako sa kulay ng maletang dadalhin ko at kung ilang sapatos ang dadalhin ko sa disyerto. I know maaga pa para mag bitaw ng mga salita, pero parang katandaan lang din yan, dapat by now nakikita mo na ang mga 7 signs of skin aging, I mean signs kung pabagsak na ang realsyon.
Dahil siguro higit pa sa assurance ang nakukuha ko kaya hindi ako nagpatalo sa sabi ng marami, that LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP DO NOT WORK.
This phrase on caps, is a challenge. We will prove them wrong, and wait, the last time I checked, LOCAL RELATIONSHIPS DO NOT WORK EITHER.
Quits lang.
P.S. Kung hinahanap niyo si Sheena Easton sa blog post na 'to dahil sa title. Waley! Kthnxbye! LOL
11 ang naumay sa:
Nagwowork naman kaso talagang mahirap. Kelangan ng mahabang patience, constant communication, and lots of sex... phone, video or otherwise. Haha.
Sa totoo, madami lang talaga ang duwag na pumasok sa LDR kaya naniniwala silang it doesn't work. Either that or talagang pinanganak lang talaga silang makati. Haha.
Yun na.
haha pareho tayo wala ng alam sabihin mga nakapaligid sakin na may iba na un sa pinas!
pero keribels lang yan,basta may communication,patience, at love i think kaya naman natin i-prove na "kaya naman" talaga tumagal ng LDR...
kanya kanyang diskarte lang yan. if both would want it to work, it will =)
@tristan: "and lots of sex... phone, video or otherwise. Haha. " --- kung may like button lang, ginawa ko na.
@mac callister: tama, kailangan lang ng maraming patience, at prayers.
@MkSurf8: ikaw ang peg. i salute you and your partner. thanks for dropping by.
tama si tristan diba? likas lang daw silang pinanganak na makati. BWAHAHAHAHA. :)
I agggggggrrrreeeeee (with lots of gggrrrr)
the relationship will work, if you want both of it to work...
yung mga hindi nagwowork, that's because they didn't make it work...
Saludo kami sayo Siopao and bunwich!
God bless both of you!
The truly important things in life, the essential, the valued, are worth fighting and working hard for. Nothing of immense worth comes easy. But those that are, all sorts of hurdles and challenges, distanciation and absence, becomes surmountable.
Next thing you know, uuwi ka na. Mabilis lang yan. Your coffee mug i still warm. :)
I was laughing so hard!! Hahaha. Ang maldita mo!!! Hahahahaa
But that's the thing: you are right. Perhaps it isn't distance that matters, something else. I have a funny feeling you have it =)
Kane
@von: thanks for dropping by. oo nga, people always assume that LDR is not something to go into because it will not work. well, we're here to prove them wrong. hehe
@jepoy: thanks sa pagdalaw. nakakatuwang andito na ulit tayo kung saan nagsimula ang lahat
@red: i agree, it may be difficult for some, but when you feel strong about something. you'll survive. thanks for the words
@kane: surviving a relationship and keeping itt taught me to sometimes put claws on my words, esp. in this kind of relationship, where everyone is a threat.thanks.
LDR'S work:) been there done that. more than a year kami magkahiwalay nung partner ko eh:) I know kaya nyo din;)
mag la like nlng aq, kasi a month from now, LDR na rin ang drama ng lola. hehe
tnx kiddo! hehe
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